Showing posts with label day of beauty. Show all posts
Showing posts with label day of beauty. Show all posts

Wednesday, January 23, 2019

Memories—The Teapot

Hall Teapot

In my last post here, I talked about teapots. That led to a lively discussion on Facebook about teapots vs. cups. (I prefer making my tea in a teapot, but have been known to brew just a cup.) A friend mentioned her grandmother's teapot and it made me think of my grandmother's teapot, which is lovingly referred to as the ugly yellow teapot.

Every time I look at that Aladdin-esque teapot I think of my grandmother.  Growing up, we spent most weekends with her.  She was a Rosie Riveter. She went to work when my grandfather went off to war and she worked the rest of her life. I talked about finding her biological mother two blog posts ago, so she's truly been on my mind a lot lately.

Now, back to her teapot. She used that ugly yellow teapot every Sunday for dinner.  And even as a young child, she'd let me have a cup of tea from it. I remember feeling so grownup as I drank my liberally-laced-with-milk tea.  My own minions will frequently ask for cafe au lait, which to them means a splash of coffee in their glass of milk. I suspect they feel that same surge of grownup-ness.

Fast forward— When I was a young mother, we lived upstairs flat over my grandmother's. She'd asked me what I wanted of hers when she died. I immediately answered, the ugly yellow teapot.

Fast foward— One day not long after that discussion, I was upstairs with a toddler and a baby when I heard this horrible scream from my grandmother's apartment. I scooped up the kids, ran downstairs and there she was in the kitchen, sobbing over the pieces of the teapot. She got it out to give me and broke it. After decades of Sunday dinners, it was in pieces and she was heartbroken, despite my assurances that the memory of her generosity was enough.

Fast forward— Himself (my husband's title on social media) and I went to a pre-opening antique sale my parents were a part of. (They were selling Griswold at that time.) We got in before the public. And what did I spy on a shelf? The teapot. The ugly yellow teapot.  Now let's be clear, my husband was in college and we had two kids.  Money was beyond tight. The dealer's price was pretty much the grand total in our checking account.  But Himself insisted I buy the teapot.

My grandmother cried when I showed it to her. And then laughed when I informed her I'd spent our grocery money on it and she probably should invite us to Sunday dinner.  She did and the teapot sat where it's predecessor had alway sat. She poured tea from it, just as she always had.  I have no idea what she made for dinner, I just remember the teapot.  After dinner, it was carefully washed and I took it home.

Since then, it's always been on display at my house.  Whenever I look at that teapot, I think of my grandmother.  She was not an easy woman, but she adored us kids.  Whenever I think of those weekends at her house, I remember watching Lawrence Welk, Poptarts and poached eggs for breakfasts and...that teapot. I don't use it often—my teapot workhorse is a big Brown Betty—but I look at it often and always think of my grandmother when I do.

Retelling my grandmother and the teapot story sort of ties together my last two blog posts.  I love it when life has that kind of symmetry. LOL

Holly

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Thursday, January 17, 2019

A Day of Beauty—Pottery


 Another day...another day of beauty. This time the pottery edition.

By now, I think most of you know I went back to school last year (my brother assures me that no one can miss my pottery posts and pics on social media). I take one class a term. I'm started my 4th class this week—they've all be ceramics. Since I started taking classes, I've started looking at the world through new eyes. I think I see more. I notice texture and shape. I notice beauty. I really don't have to proclaim a day of beauty. I think most days have some bit of it, if you only stop to look. But when I looked, today was especially beautiful.

I've been talking to a lovely lady about Rob Bernard. I did a report on him and blogged about him last year. I find his art fascinating. As we spoke, I realized what a gift these ceramic classes have been.  The classes have impacted my writing and my day-to-day life.

On the heels of that conversation, I ran up the studio and stopped in at The Cumming's Gallery. There's a great exhibit right now by Thomas Hubert.  I love how he combines wood and ceramics. I love how he plays with unusual forms and some very large forms.

His large teapots are so much fun to study. Teapots were first made in ancient China and while most people just microwave a cup of tea, they're still a classic ceramic form. (I don't microwave cups...I brew pots.) And sometimes, like Hubert's, they're not classic, instead they're unique, bold, big and narrative. my one teapot was definitely more narrative than functional. though I'm planning to make a functional one soon.

Beauty. It's everywhere. It's in an art gallery, but I also find it when I'm walking in the morning, or sitting by the fireplace on a winter evening.  It's in a good book, or...  Well, you get the point!

I hope as you go about your day, you find it's filled with beauty!

Holly

(You can read some of my other Days of Beauty here.)

My Carry Her Heart teapot—Front
My Carry Her Heart teapot—Back.

PS. Check out 2018's releases!!
(And keep an eye out for 2019's! There are a bunch!):


















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Friday, June 22, 2018

Trippin' with Holly and Susan—6







Susan Gable and I are talking about empty nests today. (My nest empties...then fills back up...then empties...) 

Climb in the backseat and come along for the ride...we'd love to have you join the conversation!

Holly

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Thursday, May 24, 2018

On Writing (and life): Perspective


per·spec·tive
noun
  1. 1.
    the art of drawing solid objects on a two-dimensional surface so as to give the right impression of their height, width, depth, and position in relation to each other when viewed from a particular point.
    "a perspective drawing"
  2. 2.
    a particular attitude toward or way of regarding something; a point of view.

Today I'm talking about the second part of perspective's definition...that idea of changing our way of looking at something.  That idea of changing our point-of-view, POV.

Writers spend a great deal of time thinking about POV. Each character we write has one that's distinctly their own.  When I'm writing that character, I try not to see the world through my eyes, but rather through their eyes.  

Maybe they've suffered a loss, like the heroine in Just One Thing...that will color how they see the world.  

Maybe they've cleaned a murder scene, like Quincy in the Maid in LA series.  That definitely colors her perspective. 

Perspective...it's something I spend a lot of my 'working' day thinking about.  I want each character to ring authentic in a story, so I have to think about it. 

And I think that first part of the definition really is applicable as well.  I'm trying to build a fully three-dimensional person on a two dimensional page and "give the right impression of their height, width, depth, and position in relation to each other when viewed from a particular point."

(I'm pretty pleased with that particular insight to be honest.  It will give me something to think about today as I write.)

But that idea of perspective is important in real life, too.  It's easy to get stuck in a rut.  To think or act in a particular way without thought.  That's when changing your perspective and looking at the world from a different angle makes sense.  

So some days, I change things up and work somewhere else.  Now that the weather is nice, I try to spend a day or two each week working at camp (there's a video of my view in a sec).  Sometimes I give myself a Day of Beauty to remind myself that not matter what's going on, the world is amazing.

But sometimes it's more than that.  Sometimes, as I try to understand someone, I try to put myself in their shoes.  I try to see the world through their POV and that...that can change my own.  

I think the world would be a better place—and filled with a lot more glee—if everyone took a moment to try to understand where someone else is coming from.  And even if we'll never agree with them (I don't agree with every character I write) we can understand them better. And once you understand someone, it's easier to accept them—accept them and love them.

That's why I write romance. Because that need to be loved and accepted is universal.  It's something that speaks to me as a writer, and hopefully speaks to you all as readers.

That's my thought on writing—and life—today!

And while I have you here, I want to thank everyone who took a moment to offer me and Ella condolences on losing Ethel. We both appreciate it more than you can know, and your concern gave us solace.

Holly

Here's my writing view at camp yesterday.  We're going to start the stone behind the woodstove soon!
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Wednesday, January 17, 2018

A Day of Beauty...Birds Edition




 A Day of Beauty...
Birds Edition

Erie is cold and snowy, so it was time to get out for another day of beauty.  And of course, I always know where to go to find some beauty...I headed downtown to the Erie Art Museum.  There was a new exhibit I was anxious to see.  But first, I stopped by Erie's newest coffeehouse, Ember and Forge. (You can see my reflection in the door...I try to get one in each Day of Beauty photo.) I think finding a new coffee hangout is definitely beautiful, so it fit my day's theme!  

Coffee in hand, I walked the block to the Erie Art Museum.  I so enjoy taking a walk through the exhibits and just browse, but this time I went with a purpose...I wanted to see the Daniel Burke collection.


Dan Burke is a local artist and teacher.  I love that so much of his art centers on birds. He talks about why on his bio page in a video. 

When I wrote Hold Her Heart, there was a younger character who was engrossed by birds.


“You like birds?” I asked.

She nodded, sending more wisps of hair bolting from the ponytail holder. “Yeah. I like ’em all. When we used to go to the beach, I’d take bread for the seagulls. Logan says they’re flying rats, but I like ’em. Did you ever read Jonathan Livingston Seagull? I think that’s why,” she said, not leaving me time to answer. “They’ve got snowy owls out on the peninsula now and bald eagles. And blue herons. Oh, and there’s a whole part of the beach they close down every spring ’cause they hope some birds nest there. Plovers I think. I’d like to go to the peninsula and spot them, but Mom’s not really up to that, so we just watch them back here. I got her garden certified as a wildlife habitat last year for her birthday. There’s a little plaque near the house.”
From where we sat at the back of the garden, the house was only just visible through the bushes and trees. In the summer, when all the leaves were full and green, I didn’t think you’d be able to see it at all. “I’m sure Piper loved the present.”
“I think so.”
“I don’t know much about bird songs, but I’ve always liked learning what groups of birds are called. They’re all something different,” I said. “A murder of crows, a raft of ducks, an unkindess of ravens.” I thought about Jonathan Livingston Seagull and added, “A squabble of gulls.”

I think that's why Burke's art spoke to me.  Like, Fiona, I love birds. He inspired me to try my hand at birds in the studio.  I don't think I quite have the heads right, but for a first attempt, I'm happy with them.  He said in his video that you need 10,000 hours to be proficient at anything.  I've got a few hours to go! LOL  Spring term started, so I'll be getting a few more hours in!

If you're in Erie and haven't seen Burke's Callings exhibit at the museum, it's time to head down and give yourself a Day of Beauty.  And if you're not from Erie, come visit!  And you can visit us in Hold Her Heart and so many of my other books!  I love my hometown and I love bringing readers here for a visit. 

Holly


PS. Here's my view while I work...the birds give me endless hours of glee!