Monday, February 15, 2021

Be a Hero...Lend a Hand


 If you're low on the Covid vaccine priority list, you might not have tried to find an appointment yet. But let me assure you, it's crazy. Here in PA, I need to try half a dozen individual sites around us trying to get an older relative an appointment. My kids are trying to find her one as well. Every day, all of us. Multiple times. Multiple sites. She doesn't have a computer. So we've all jumped in, trying to get get her a vaccine sooner rather than later.

A lot of assisted living communities are having vaccines brought in, but there are many people who are eligible to get a vaccine, but live independently and don't have that service. And maybe don't have computers, or computer expertise.

That's the point of today's post. I'm not talking about my books, my studio or Tallulah. I'm not trying to give you glee or make you smile.

I'm here talking about helping someone else. Yes, this is a cry for help for others you know.  Reach out to your older relatives, to your older neighbors. Reach out to those who don't have computers. People who aren't computer literate. Reach out. Lend a hand. Be a hero. Be their hero.

I have law enforcement officers in my family. People who put their lives on the line to make a difference and to save lives.  I have a lot of medical professionals in my family. Again, they put their lives on the line trying to make a difference and save lives.

I'm a romance writer, and a potter. I've spent my life wrangling kids. I like to think those things have made a difference but there haven't been a lot of times I've got to actively save someone's life. But this I can do. I can go through those sites and look for open appointments. 

And I can put out this call and ask you to reach out. Be a hero...lend a hand. 

As long as I'm putting out calls, wear a mask, stay socially distance, wash your hands. And let's all beat this awful, horrible disease. Let's come together and lend a hand where we can. And this once, we can all be heroes.

Holly


Saturday, February 13, 2021

Something Blue

 


Family.

I've built a life and my writing career around family.

This Hometown Hearts Wedding trilogy deals with families. Friends who become families. Families who are made through adoption. Families who are born...Family. Watching people come together, fall apart, adapt... It's a fascinating process. Every story comes at it from a new direction.

We've talked before about how my real life impacts my writing. In March's book,  Something Blue, I deal with dementia in an older loved one. It's a reality I know about. My grandmother slowly lost her battle with dementia over years. Then we adopted a neighbor who also battled that kind of loss. It's an awful process. And you might be thinking, Holly, that's too grim to read about.  But that's not all there is. My grandmother always knew me and my kids. We visited every day. Even after she couldn't remember our names, she knew she was ours and we were hers. The connection was still there. She knew she was loved and she wasn't alone.

We saw the same thing with our neighbor. The Minions owned her entire nursing home. We walked over regularly. The two littles would dress up in their superhero capes and ride their scooters (you can't ride a bike in a cape). Not only did she know we were hers and she was ours, the entire nursing home knew the Minions. They high-fived their way through the halls. Some days they were Batman and Robin, sometimes they were Superman and the Green Lantern... What I loved the most is how gentle they were with everyone. They didn't worry if our neighbor didn't know their names. They filled her in on their day and chatted away and she loved it. 

We missed those visits last year.

Someone once questioned why we visited if a patient didn't know us. I think that even when memories have gone, when someone is lost in their own mind, they recognize love. They feel it. It's a bright light in a dark place. So we visited. My kids and the Minions learned lessons on patience, empathy and love. And our loved ones learned no matter what they were never alone.

Those are the things I tried to put in Something Blue. Connection. Empathy. Love. I know I write romances and writing about love is obviously a part of that, but I really try to write about broader loves. About family. About all the ways they come together and all the ways they stand together.

I've built a life around family and I've built a career around it.

I am so lucky in both!

I hope you'll check out the entire Hometown Hearts series and Something Blue!

Holly





Crib Notes: Hometown Hearts #1









A Special Kind of Different: Hometown Hearts #2











Homecoming: Hometown Hearts #3



 


Suddenly a Father: Hometown Hearts #4




Preorder: Something Borrowed: Hometown Hearts #5
Available 1/5/21








PREORDER: Something Blue Available 3/21






Preorder Something Perfect Available 5/21

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